A woman should have
one old love she can imagine going back to,
and one who reminds her how far she has come.
A woman should have
enough money within her control to
move out and rent a place of her own
even if she never wants to or needs to.
A woman should have
something perfect to wear if the employer
or date of her dreams wants to
see her in an hour
A woman should have
a youth she is content to leave behind.
A woman should have
a past juicy enough that she’s looking
forward to retelling it in her old age.
A woman should have
a set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill and a black lace bra.
A woman should have
one friend who always makes her laugh
and one who lets her cry.
A woman should have
a good piece of furniture not previoulsy owned
by anyone else in her family.
A woman should have eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems
and a recipe for a meal
that will make her guests feel honoured.
A woman should have
a feeling of control over her destiny.
Every woman should know
how to fall in love without losing herself.
Every woman should know
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and comfort a friend
without ruining the friendship.
Every woman woman should know
when to try harder….
and when to walk away.
Every woman should know
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips or the nature of her parents.
Every woman should know
that her childhood may not have been perfect……
but it’s over.
Every woman should know
what she would and wouldn’t do for love.
Every woman should know
how to live alone……even if she doesn’t like it.
Every woman should know
whom she can trust, whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally.
Every woman should know
where to go
be it to her best friends kitchen table
or a charming inn in the woods
when her soul needs soothing.
Every woman should know
What she can and can’t accomplish in a day…..
a month……and a year.
(by Maya Angelou)
So Lovelies, is there anything else that
should be on this list?
Would love to hear your thoughts
xxxx
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